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THIS IS HOW YOU ARE IN A RELATIONSHIP ACCORDING TO YOUR BIRTH ORDER

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There is just no doubt that the order in which you were born in your family relative to your siblings is going to affect your personality in a myriad of ways. It’s just because there are certain conditions, responsibilities, and expectations that are set on you depending on where you fall in the line of siblings. That’s why it can be fairly easy to predict how you would act in a relationship depending purely on your birth order. Whether you’re the eldest, the middle child, the youngest, or the only child, you are going to have certain characteristics and traits in your personality that you will carry with you into your relationships. And these traits are going to be distinct only to you. However, it is still important to note that all people are different and just because two people happen to be the youngest siblings in their respective families doesn’t mean that they’re automatically going to have the same personalities. It’s just that their position in the family setting is like...

A LETTER TO MY FUTURE SELF

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  Dear Future Me (37 years old), How’s life? I hope you are in good shape. Though I am a big glutton as of this moment – eating out the stress from all the shits of this life – I am still hoping that you are in a good condition: healthy, happy, and financially stable. The least thing I could imagine you right now (knock on wood) is for you to be in bed, chained with all the apparatuses in this world to artificially sustain life. Have you met Denzel Washington yet? Were you able to travel to Ireland with Lyn to meet Colin Morgan? Gosh, I'm shaking. Were you able to spend your honey moon in the Maldives? Was it as adventurously awesome and breathtaking as the way they projected it on those pictures and videos you have been repeatedly watching? How was your interview on the Delay Show with Deloris Frimpong Manso. I hope she didn't drain you that much. (Hahahaha) Have you fully-documented all the sunrise and sunsets you’ve seen? How’s the blog? Did it gain more viewers...

A DAY I WILL NEVER FORGET

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 There has been a lot of defining moments in my life. To be brutally honest, a lot of those moments I would have rather not happened. But they have played a huge part in who I am today, and I strongly believe that despite how hard they may have been, everything does happen for a reason. I've been through some shit. 99% of that shit I do not and will not ever (well, we'll see) post online, as it is private and too difficult to share so openly. I felt like this about what I am going to talk about today for a good portion of time. 2 years ago on August 16, I was denied of entering a university I have applied for. I feel shaky and tingly and sad writing that. I can talk pretty candidly about a lot of hard things in my life, to my friends or family. However, whenever I try to talk about this, or write about it in this case, I get choked up. It's strange. I only really realise how much that day actually affected me when I think about it for long enough. I guess that is beca...

5 THINGS I WOULD BRING TO A DESERTED ISLAND

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  My dream come true.  Time alone. To live in peace, to read a book without interruption, to enjoy a snack out of hiding. So I would be lying if I said there weren’t times I just got lost. Maybe on the way home. Maybe in a store. And sometimes – sometimes, I’d like to get lost on a deserted island far, far away from the hustle, bustle, and most people's demands of every day life. Of course, I love the life I live. Don’t get me wrong. But it can be, well, overwhelming at times.  I'm needed all the time.  There are no breaks, especially as a freelancer. So to say I need a break is an understatement. So follow me on this dream for a moment, would you? If I could take a little vacation to a deserted island where NO ONE could bother me and there were no to-do lists, I’d pack a few necessities. Since I’m just going to assume there are no demands, no requirements of me to figure out how to stay alive (because, let’s face it, that’s another responsibili...

7 THINGS TO DO WHEN YOU ARE HAVING A BAD DAY

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  Hi guysss, welcome! Let's read something healthy today. Buckle up and enjoy the ride.... From time to time we all have bad days and that is ok. I have compiled some ways to help you when you are having a bad day. These have proven to be successful for me so it is not just empty words. 1. Breathing exercises. A way to help destress is to try out the breathing exercises and making sure you use deep breathes and use your lungs properly. Doing these exercises helps slow down your breathing and can be really therapeutic to just stop and focus on your breathing. Youtube is a brilliant source of visual aids to run through the step-to-step guide to doing deep breathing. 2. Meditation. Meditation is so useful to help calm you down, give you something to think about other than the negative feelings that you hold. It helps distract you and give you something to focus on that can help make you feel calmer and relaxed. 3. Hot bath. There is something about having a hot ...

TOP 5 ADVICES I HAVE EVER BEEN GIVEN. (THE BEST)

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  Advices are one of my tools for motivation. Whenever someone spends his or her precious time to advice me, I do my best to listen because giving an advice isn't easy. All my life, I have received tons of advices that I can't remember and so the ones I'm sharing are the ones I remember and somehow held on to. Without further ado, here are my top 5 advices I have ever been given. 5. Opportunities abound everywhere, You only need to see them. - Tough Call Tough Call is a novel which was given to us in high School. My school has this extracurricular program called Functional literature. All students are given a novel to read and later get tested to prove whether the book was read or not. In summary and if my memory serves me right, the book was about how a young girl worked hard to be successful despite her enormous challenges. I got this advice from the book and I held on to it since then. For real, there are a lot of opportunities around us and until we open our eyes ...

INTRODUCING, THE LOML( LOVE OF MY LIFE). 💟💎🔐

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 It all started at a camp meeting in presec Legon Accra. I mean that is the day I accepted him. This post is about the one and only person in my life who has been there for me since forever. Welcome dearieess. Don't leave now, read further and get to know someone extraordinary in my life.  Just at 22 and I tell you if my life was to be transformed into a TV show, we would have been in Season 91 episode 13(2 hours per episode). It's a lot and it is still playing. In every episode of this my tv show, there is a major key Character that has been there since day one and I know he would be in the season finale and even after. He means the world to me. HE IS MY EVERYTHING! His name is Jesus Christ. Back to my introduction, I accepted him at a camp meeting I attended and I'm stuck with him till now despite my defects and imperfections. You see, one of the utmost benefits I'm obliged to is his unending love for me. He is always there. Even when I turn my back on him, realis...