LET'S TALK ABOUT LOVE

 



I love her. I love him. He's my everything. She's my world. I can't live without him. I can't breathe without her. Uuurrrghhh!!! This love issue eh.

Hello worlddddd. Welcome back to my plug and if you're you're new here, I'm officially welcoming you. I hope you stick and stay so that you don't miss the fun. I won't waste much time, let's get to it.

How often do you tell the one you love that you truly love them and that you appreciate the fact that they are in your life. Not necessarily your boyfriend or girlfriend. I mean, someone you genuinely love. A relative, church member, pastor, teacher, bestfriend, class mate, neighbour, coach, and the list goes on and on. I won't go to the extent of defining love because I know my target audience understand the word. However, you can check on Google if you don't understand. I promise you will get a wider meaning from there.

We are in a world where it's easy to say I love you without any proof to show whether your love is true or not. And for some parts too, just opening your mouth to say i love you to a relative or a friend is a whole difficult situation on it's own. (What I'm I trying to say?) All I'm trying to say that it's about time we let actions flow right after our words. I'm also trying to say that you shouldn't allow the word "I love you" be so difficult to say.

If you love someone and you claim that it is real, show up, check up, visit, be there for him or her, ask about him and be concerned about the person in regards to their daily lifestyle. (To be honest, even this goes to me) Let him or her know for sure that you love them and it is unconditional. You tell me you love me, what are you doing? How do I know ? (In pastor Salvation's voice) Don't let something happen to the person before you come and rattle your mouth and post on social media about how much you loved the person. Show your love now! Whiles we have breath! Whiles we are alive!

If you love someone, tell him or her. I remember, I recently told my youth president that I love him sooo much.(Mind you he is a male) For real, he is one my favourites. I told him I love him and after the words sprouted out of my mouth, the atmosphere felt weird. You know the reply he gave me, he said "I love you more than your love for me". I just smiled. Some people might not even reply as sweet as he replied(like some people I know) and it is super fine. You know what you get from that person, you know how much that person inspires you, you know how that person has helped, just let them know they are loved. I have personally started to adapt that air of confidence to actually tell the people I love that I appreciate and love them to the moon and back. My girlfriends, my mentors and those key people in my life.

And oh, it's not a difficult work at all. Just express your love to them and act on the words as well. And one thing, you can't love from a distance(I used to do that). It's a no no no. Unless it's that type of those situations. Those situations where the person has hurt you and both of you are not friends anymore so you say you have forgiven him or her but you wouldn't be friends with the person, so you claim you have nothing against them but love the person from afar. That one is exceptional. Other than that is not acceptable please. Never love from a distance.

Love! Love! Love! And when you are at it, do it well.
I hope we all make an intentional effort to portray our love to our loved ones. I pray for confidence for us all.

 Enjoy your weekend! Meet you here next week friday! (Wait I'm not done, please read my Note)

NB: I need you all to be commenting under my posts please. Those who comment, may God richly bless you. You liked the post, you didn't, you have a suggestion or anything, just comment under the post. I don't want Google to be thinking I'm a robot I beg you. Google needs to see that my blog is being engaged so that they can grant me an access to my Google Adsense Account. If you loved the post too, just share it with your friends. Thank you.

Love,
Angel.

Comments

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

5 THINGS I WOULD BRING TO A DESERTED ISLAND

Image
  My dream come true.  Time alone. To live in peace, to read a book without interruption, to enjoy a snack out of hiding. So I would be lying if I said there weren’t times I just got lost. Maybe on the way home. Maybe in a store. And sometimes – sometimes, I’d like to get lost on a deserted island far, far away from the hustle, bustle, and most people's demands of every day life. Of course, I love the life I live. Don’t get me wrong. But it can be, well, overwhelming at times.  I'm needed all the time.  There are no breaks, especially as a freelancer. So to say I need a break is an understatement. So follow me on this dream for a moment, would you? If I could take a little vacation to a deserted island where NO ONE could bother me and there were no to-do lists, I’d pack a few necessities. Since I’m just going to assume there are no demands, no requirements of me to figure out how to stay alive (because, let’s face it, that’s another responsibili...
Read more

A DAY I WILL NEVER FORGET

Image
 There has been a lot of defining moments in my life. To be brutally honest, a lot of those moments I would have rather not happened. But they have played a huge part in who I am today, and I strongly believe that despite how hard they may have been, everything does happen for a reason. I've been through some shit. 99% of that shit I do not and will not ever (well, we'll see) post online, as it is private and too difficult to share so openly. I felt like this about what I am going to talk about today for a good portion of time. 2 years ago on August 16, I was denied of entering a university I have applied for. I feel shaky and tingly and sad writing that. I can talk pretty candidly about a lot of hard things in my life, to my friends or family. However, whenever I try to talk about this, or write about it in this case, I get choked up. It's strange. I only really realise how much that day actually affected me when I think about it for long enough. I guess that is beca...
Read more

15 RANDOM FACTS ABOUT ME

Image
  Hello, lovely readers, I hope you are all doing greeaat.  Today I decided to be more open and at least tell you some things that you might not know about me and also for you to just be able to know me more. They might not be totally random but you may know some of them from my previous posts or not, so anyway here are some random facts about me. 01. I'm still afraid of ghosts - Say whaaaat! This thing has been with me since I was a kid and I still can't shake it off. I go to a funeral and watch the corpse and then come home to suffer because my brain doesn't want to let go of the dead body's face. I get scared for about 3 months and then it goes away. 02. I'm half Ivorian - Yeahhh. My mom comes from Ivory Coast. 03. I imagine people dying and I start to cry - This is one fact about me that I dislike. I start to imagine my favourite people dying and then the tears will automatically start dripping down my face. Now that's not good. I know rightttt . ...
Read more